After being charged with involuntary manslaughter, Alec Baldwin was reportedly ‘distraught.’

A source familiar with Alec Baldwin’s handling of the criminal allegations against him has spoken up. Alec and Hilaria were apparently “prepared for all scenarios, but nothing can completely prepare you for this,” according to People. “They’re depending on one other and trying to stay focused on the kids.”

“Hilaria has been Alec’s rock throughout this, and seeing him so distraught is devastating for her,” the insider said, adding that Hilaria “is doing whatever she can to support him, and they’re doing their best to be strong for the kids.”